10 Flirting Tips for Guys

10 Flirting Tips for Guys

If you ask a man and a woman for flirting advise, they will most certainly give you radically different answers. Men believe that flirting with women necessitates pick-up lines, outward shows of machismo, and sexual innuendo. Women, on the other hand, seek stimulating discussion, confidence, and respect.

To be honest, most guys overthink flirting. So, the next time you approach a lady, keep these recommendations from a female's point of view in mind, and you'll be far more likely to have a wonderful conversation—which may even lead to a date.

1. Be self-assured.
Confidence is appealing, and it is the most attractive quality in males. "Fake it 'til you make it," as the adage goes. Even if you don't feel confident, act confidently and you'll appear it.

2. Pay attention to what she's saying.
It may appear to be obvious, yet it bears repeating. Forgetting critical data she provided with you within the first few minutes of meeting you, such as her name or what she does for a job, is a major turnoff.

3. Don’t do all of the talking.
Men can't stop talking when they're scared. Men who just talk about themselves, on the other hand, automatically turn off women. If you never ask her questions or give her the opportunity to speak, you'll appear to be a major narcissist, even if you're not. Make an effort to share the floor.

4. Demonstrate your curiosity.
In addition to listening and allowing her to speak, you must keep eye contact, smile, and be generally involved with her. Don't look at your phone, don't look at the baseball score (unless you're both like sports), and definitely don't look at another lady.

5. Don't be frightened of being rejected...
Rejection is unpleasant, yet it occurs to everyone. One of the most common reasons people avoid flirting is a fear of being rejected. It's easier said than done, so don't let it get to you.

6....and gently accept defeat.
Leave a woman alone if she isn't interested. It may be tempting to urge her to see if she would alter her mind, but doing so will only irritate her. If you are refused, simply accept it and do not criticize her or remind her that she made a mistake.

7. Understand why women are hesitant to flirt with strangers.
Unfortunately, chatting to random males may be nerve-racking or even upsetting for some women. Not because they are afraid of flirting or being rejected, but because they are concerned about their own safety. It's just something to keep in the back of your mind.

8. Be courteous.
You have no right to her time. However, if you respect a woman's limits, she is far more inclined to flirt with you and want to get to know you. Women do not want to be objectified or, worse, terrified. Being non-creepy goes much further than you would expect.

9. Invite her out.
Is it daring? Yes. Isn't that why you're flirting in the first place? Yes! Do not ask her out within the first 30 seconds, as this appears desperate and arbitrary. However, if you've actually liked flirting with her, have a nice vibe, and want to get to know her further, go for it—and say so.

10. Practice.
These pointers are useless until you put them into action. You may not be the best flirter right away—which is fine!—but with practice, you will improve. Look for opportunities to flirt respectfully anywhere, even if it's only for a minute or two, such as in line at the grocery store or at the dog park.

We all need flirting advice from time to time, and we hope these female-centric views are helpful. The best way to improve at flirting is to practice, so get out there and start conversing at Myexoticdate